A sexfight is a voluntary erotic physical competition involving at least one woman and leading to one or more orgasms. It is normally written as a single word, i.e., sexfight, not "sex fight". There are several variations, but the most common version involves forcing the opponent to orgasm against their will. In real life sexfights are quite rare. They are far more common in erotic short stories available primarily on the Internet. As with much fetish material, sexfight material has an extremely limited audience—either the reader or viewer loves it or isn't interested.
When the opponents are both male, it is usually called a cockfight.
A
sexfight differs from a catfight, which involves scratching, slapping,
perhaps arm twisting, tit-squeezing, hair-pulling, punching and even
biting but does not normally involve trying to force an orgasm.
"Alternative Dispute Resolution": In real life it is quite rare that two women will decide to "settle things" between them by a sexfight. Reasons they might do so would be that (1) they want to sexually overpower the other woman, or (2) they want to find who the "better woman" is (meaning to find the better lover), or (3) because they decide to have that kind of fight over a man or over another woman or (4) over something they both want very much. In reality, those cases mostly exist in sexfight videos and sexfight stories rather than in real life. They are a quite popular men's fantasy. However, rare does not mean that they do not exist in real life at all.
Minor Decision Making: Sometimes lovers will bet on the result of their match. In those cases the winner gets to do something her way (while the loser had other ideas) or the loser has do something neither wanted to do, such as washing the dishes or taking out the garbage for a week. They play all these "on the bed" and the winner of the sexfight decides.
Sex Game - Friendly Competition: The more common kind of sexfight in real life is the "competitive trib" or "friendly" sexfight. In this case a sexfight is nothing more than a sexual game between two lovers to enjoy some wilder moments together and to raise their excitement because of the heat of their supposed "contest". There is nothing to be settled between them, they are simply playing a role-playing game in which they argue about something and they want to settle it by a sexfight.
This kind of sexfight does exist in real life. Not as much as other more popular sexual games (yet, these ideas have started to spread lately) but much more than a sexfight after a real dispute or a rivalry. As happens in every sexual game, a sexfight is not for all, not every woman or every man is a sexfighter. Some like it and they find this sexual game exciting, some find it silly or it simply does not work for them. In general the rule is that "Sexfighting is not for everyone. Even if it is for us it is not for all the times, it is not to be played with every partner". The same happens with other sexual games as well.
